Elder and Dependent Abuse
Are You in Danger Now? If you need help right now, call “911.”
You can also call Adult Protective Services in your county.
What Is Elder or Dependent Adult Abuse?
Abuse of an elder or a dependent adult is abuse of:
Someone 65 years old or older; or
A dependent adult, who is someone between 18 and 64 that has certain mental or physical disabilities that keep him or her from being able to do normal activities or protect himself or herself.
The law says elder or dependent adult abuse is:
Physical abuse, neglect, financial abuse, abandonment, isolation, abduction (taking the person out of the state against his or her will), or other behavior that causes physical harm, pain, or mental suffering; OR
Deprivation by a caregiver of things or services that the elder or dependent adult needs to avoid physical harm or mental suffering.
Read about the law in Welfare and Institutions Code section 15610.07.
If you are an elderly person or a dependent adult being abused in any of these ways or you feel afraid or controlled by a family member, a spouse/partner or former spouse/partner, or a caregiver, it may help you to talk to a counselor, even if you do not want (or are not sure if you want) to ask for legal protection. Find counselors and resources in your county.
ELDER OR DEPENDENT ADULT ABUSE RESTRAINING ORDERS
You can ask for an elder or dependent adult abuse restraining order if:
You are 65 or older, OR
You are between 18 and 64 and have certain mental or physical disabilities that keep you from being able to do normal activities or protect yourself;
AND
You are a victim of: Physical or financial abuse,
Neglect or abandonment,
Treatment that has physically or mentally hurt you, or
Deprivation (withholding) by a caregiver of basic things or services you need so you will not suffer physically, mentally, or emotionally.
It is possible that you may qualify for an elder or dependent adult abuse restraining order AND a domestic violence restraining order (like if the person abusing you is a spouse or partner, or a child or grandchild). If this is your case, talk to a lawyer or legal aid agency to find out what is the best option for you. Your local domestic violence agency or local legal services offices may be able to help you.
Your court’s family law facilitator or self-help center may also be able to help you or refer you to someone in your area who can.
If you do not qualify for an elder or dependent adult abuse restraining order, there are other kinds of orders you can ask for:
Domestic violence restraining order (for protection from people you were involved with romantically at some point or close family members). Find more information on getting a domestic violence order.
Civil harassment restraining order (can be used for neighbors, roommates, coworkers, or more distant family members like cousins, uncles/aunts, etc.). Find more information on getting a getting a civil harassment order.
Workplace violence restraining order (filed by an employer to protect an employee from violence, stalking, or harassment by another person). Find more information on getting a getting a workplace violence order.
If you are not sure what kind of restraining order you should get, talk to a lawyer, your court’s family law facilitator or self-help center. Click for help finding a lawyer.
What a restraining order CAN do
A restraining order is a court order. It can order the restrained person to:
Not contact or go near you, your children, other relatives, or others who live with you;
Stay away from your home, work, or other places you go to a lot;
Move out of your house (even if you live together); and
Not have a gun.
Once the court issues (makes) a restraining order, it goes into a statewide computer system. This means that law enforcement officers across California can see there is a restraining order in place.
Effect of a restraining order on the restrained person
For the person to be restrained, the consequences of having a court order against him or her can be very severe:
He or she will not be able to go to certain places or to do certain things.
He or she might have to move out of his or her home.
He or she will generally not be able to own a gun. (He or she will have to turn in, sell or store any firearms he or she has and not buy a gun while the restraining order is in effect.)
The restraining order may affect his or her immigration status. If you are worried about this, talk to an immigration lawyer to find out if you will be affected.
If the person to be restrained violates the restraining order, he or she may go to jail, or pay a fine, or both.
TYPES OF RESTRAINING ORDERS
Emergency Protective Order (EPO)
An EPO is a type of restraining order that only law enforcement can ask for by calling a judge. Judges are available to issue EPOs 24 hours a day. So a police officer that answers a call because of serious violence or a serious threat can ask a judge for an emergency protective order at any time of the day or night. In elder and dependent adult abuse cases, you can ask for an EPO, but not if the sole abuse you are suffering is financial abuse.
The emergency protective order starts right away and can last up to 7 days. The judge can order the abusive person to leave the home and stay away from the victim for up to a week. That gives the victim of the abuse enough time to go to court to file for a temporary restraining order.
To get a more permanent order, you must ask the court for a temporary restraining order (also called a “TRO”).
Temporary Restraining Order (TRO)
When you go to court to ask for a domestic violence restraining order, you fill out paperwork where you tell the judge everything that has happened and why you need a restraining order. If the judge believes you need protection, he or she will give you a temporary restraining order.
Temporary restraining orders usually last about 20 to 25 days, until your court hearing date.
“Permanent” Restraining Order (Restraining Order After Hearing)
When you go to court for the hearing that was scheduled for your TRO, the judge may issue a “permanent” restraining order. They are not really “permanent” because they usually last up to 5 years.
At the end of those 5 years (or whenever your order runs out), you can ask for a new restraining order so you remain protected.
Criminal Protective Order or “Stay Away” Order
Sometimes, when there is an incident of violence or other elder or dependent adult abuse (or series of incidents), the district attorney will file criminal charges against the abuser.
This starts a criminal court case going. It is common for the criminal court to issue a criminal protective order against the defendant (the person who is committing the violence and abuse) while the criminal case is going on, and, if the defendant is found guilty or pleads guilty, for 3 years after the case is over.
THE RESTRAINING ORDER PROCESS
When people ask for an elder or dependent adult abuse restraining order in court, they have to file court forms telling the judge what orders they want and why. What happens after that varies a little from court to court, but the general steps in the court case are:
The person wanting protection (or a court-approved guardian or conservator of the protected person) files court forms asking for the restraining order. There is NO fee to file.
The judge will decide whether or not to make the order by the next business day. Sometimes the judge decides sooner.
If the judge grants (gives) the orders requested, he or she will first make “temporary” orders that only last until the court date. The court date will be on the paperwork. These temporary orders can include issues like:
Ordering the restrained person to stay away from the protected person (and other protected people);
Ordering the restrained person not to have any contact with the protected person (and other protected people); and
Ordering the restrained person to leave the home if he or she lives with the protected person.
The person asking for protection will have to “serve” the other person with a copy of all the restraining order papers before the court date. This means that someone 18 or older (NOT involved in the case) must hand-deliver a copy of all the papers to the restrained person.
The restrained person has the right to file an answer to the restraining order request, explaining his or her side of the story.
Both sides go to the court hearing.
If the protected person does not go to the hearing, the temporary restraining order will usually end that day and there will NOT be a restraining order.
If the restrained person does not go to the hearing, he or she will have no input in the case and his or her side of the story will not be taken into account.
At the hearing, the judge will decide to continue or cancel the temporary restraining order. If the judge decides to extend the temporary order, the “permanent” order may last for up to 5 years.
Read Asking for a Restraining Order for detailed instructions on how to ask for an elder or dependent adult abuse restraining order.
Read Responding to a Restraining Order for detailed instructions on how to answer a request for an elder or dependent adult abuse restraining order.
GETTING HELP
You do not need a lawyer to ask for (or respond to) a restraining order. BUT it is a good idea to have a lawyer, especially if you need special assistance of any kind.
The court process can be confusing and intimidating. Both people will have to see each other in court, and both will have to tell the judge details of what happened in a public courtroom. Having a lawyer can help make the process easier to handle.
Click on a topic below for more resources where you can get help:
For the person asking for protection
For the person responding to a restraining order
For the person asking for protection
Most cities or counties have legal aid agencies that help people ask for an elder or dependent adult abuse restraining order. These services are usually free or very low cost. Look for help in your area before you try to do it on your own.
Some places to start are:
Adult Protective Services in your county for help and resources.
Click for local legal help.
Your court’s family law facilitator or self-help center may also be able to help you with the restraining order.
For the person responding to a restraining order
It is more difficult to find free or low-cost legal help if you are responding to a request for an elder or dependent adult abuse restraining order. But you should still try since legal aid agencies have different guidelines, and your local bar association may have a volunteer lawyer program that can help you. Click for help finding a lawyer. Your court’s family law facilitator or self-help center may also be able to help you.
Other Resources
For victims of domestic violence
National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-7233
TDD: 1-800-787-3224
Call 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. They can help you in more than 100 languages. It is free and private.
The National Domestic Violence Hotline links you to the following resources in your community:
Domestic violence shelters
Emergency shelters
Legal help
Social service programs
The website also provides a lot of information to help you and your children stay safe and get protection.
California Department of Public Health Violence Prevention Resource Directory
This site lists help by county, like:
Women’s shelters
Domestic violence programs
Victim witness assistance programs
Counseling services for victims of domestic violence
Crisis hotlines
Futures Without Violence
Covers many topics, including information on domestic violence as it relates to health care, immigration, children, and housing.
For perpetrators of domestic violence
California Department of Public Health Violence Prevention Resource Directory
This site lists help by county.
If you need an “approved” batterer intervention program, contact your county probation department.
